Deirdre Taylor is pictured outside her home in Alexandria, Va., as her family looks on from behind the door. (Renee C. Gage /Renee C. Gage Photography)

For more than three decades, Deirdre Taylor knew the firefighter who saved her life through only the grainy black-and-white photos on the front page of the New York Daily News, on Dec. 30, 1983.

She was 4 then, a blond, wide-eyed toddler pictured in the paper breathing from a resuscitator in the arms of Eugene Pugliese, the firefighter who had just carried her out of her burning apartment building.